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  • On Frogs, Friends and Life in General

    I'm glad you found my pond.

    I'm glad you found my pond.

    Several years ago, I put a little pond in my yard. One of those black plastic ones that are like miniature swimming pools. We dug a hole, put some plants around it, got a little fountain and everything. At first, I tried to have it be a home for goldfish, but they kept disappearing (not sure where they went!), so eventually I left it alone.

    Then one day I was walking past the pond and noticed a frog sitting on a long leaf that curved over the water. With amphibians being on the decline, a frog sighting, for me, is almost up there with a unicorn sighting. As I stood there admiring the gleaming little guy, my gaze drifted and I saw another…and another. These plants that made little diving boards over the water had become a frog community center.

    I walked away marveling at the way a frog can find a pond. There were a few months when I worked at a Superpetz here in Columbia. I don’t recommend working at a big chain pet store if you love animals, but sometimes, you know, you just need a job. This particular Superpetz had just had its grand opening and was super-psyched about all its pet supply grandeur, including a display of a pond. Just the same type of pond I would later buy for my own yard.

    One day a large frog (maybe a bull frog) came right through the automatic doors of this shiny pet shop. How did it navigate the hot pavement, the busy parking lot, the general lack of water in the vicinity? I have no idea. But it happened. And we, the new employees, did what seemed to be the right thing. We plopped him right into the pond display. One of my co-workers was a big guy named Roy who looked perfectly at home with a giant boa constrictor lounging on his shoulders. Roy started catching flies for the frog, dipping them in the water and watching for the inevitable frog tongue to zap them up. It really helped pass the time in between inventorying squeaky toys.

    I don’t know how a frog finds a pond. Does a frog leave one secure pond to search bravely for another like some amphibian sodbuster? Are there intricate social factors that force a frog to leave one community and search for another? Do they gets tips from birds? It’s the kind of little miracle that makes me think about all the other ways we happen into our own life stories: all the moments of chance that lead up to where we live, how we pay the bills, and who we can call our lasting friends.

    All of these thoughts are a part of “Somehow a Frog Finds a Pond,” especially the idea that eventually you will find a friend, which is the part I could have used some reassuring about along the way. You can listen to the song and you can visit the National Wildlife Federation’s Frogwatch USA here.

  • Our cat plays the banjo too, but she couldn’t make it…

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    I'm the one with the striped socks.

    This week we had reporter Otis Taylor and photographer Kim Kim Foster Tobin over to our house to take pictures for a story that ran today in our local paper, The State. Since our kids’ voices appear on the new CD, Kim Kim wanted to include them in the picture and decided to use our living room as the setting, since that is where we practice (now picture the mad scrambling we did to try to make our house look slightly less chaotic - actually getting it up to just “chaotic” was the goal).

    With my blog in mind, I asked Otis if he would take a few pictures of us getting our picture taken, especially since Kim Kim’s vision involved trying lots of angles, including the one pictured above (I’m the one with the striped socks). Henry and Lucy were great sports, and I was able to keep them going with promise of an Icee and popcorn at Target later.

    You can read the article and see the final photograph here. The State also used our song “Wake Up, World” as part of slideshow celebrating the first days of spring.

  • A Cookie As Big As My Head

    a cookie as big as my head (photo by J.P. Stephens)

    a cookie as big as my head (photo by J.P. Stephens)

    This song was inspired by a boxed lunch which came with a chocolate chip cookie that totally dwarfed the box itself. Everyone was marvelling at their dessert, and soon it was suggested I try my hand at a song entitled, “A Cookie As Big As My Head.”

    Where do you go from there? After a little soul-searching, I realized I had some strong opinions about cookies. I have always been disappointed to discover that a cookie I assumed to be chocolate chip was actually loaded down with all sorts of inappropriate ingredients like raisins, cornflakes, walnuts, carrot shavings, etc. Hey, I’m not some doomed Jack London character heading out into the tundra. Do I look like I’m dressed for an expedition? Did you just have some things in your cabinets that you needed to use before they went bad? Have you ever considered composting instead? My young friend Reilly recently wrote to me, saying, “I don’t like anything else on my cookie either.” Amen! I’m not alone. I highly recommend having an established cookie policy and communicating it to your friends and loved ones. Read More

  • Disclaimer: These children were given free Skittles too.

    One of the best things about doing this kind of music is the real possibility that children are going to be dancing their butts off at your show. And that’s just cool. Here is a clip of one of my all-time favorite experiences of kids dancing. I am so grateful that someone at ImaginOn was filming this so I know I did not make it up. Later, Jay, J.P. and I tried to analyze just what was going especially right that evening. We concluded that the combination of free Skittles and the manic energy of children keenly aware they are pushing their bedtimes can lead to especially terrific choreography. Should there be more “witching hour” shows for kids?

  • Welcome to Lunch Money

    Hello and thanks for visiting our website! We are Lunch Money - a band based in Columbia, SC - and are part of the independent family music scene. We’ve been around for about 5 years, doing our best to put on a good show, get our music reviewed and travel outside the Southeast when we can. Up until now, despite some props from the people we were able to reach, Lunch Money was an especially well-kept secret. Read More